Double wedding ring ceremonies are now the norm, and most men wear one.
Wedding band styles have varied in their structure, composition, shape and even their purpose since their introduction as part of the wedding tradition. In the West, wedding rings began as a symbol of subjugation -- identifying the bride as a chattel -- and for women only. They have evolved into a symbol of love, commitment and constancy given from one wedding partner to the other. A growing tendency has arisen for both partners to wear rings in complementary styles.
Styles Through the Ages
Wedding rings were not always made of gold.
Beginning with woven grass in Egypt and metal in ancient Rome, rings have incorporated many materials. Though metal became the chosen medium, it wasn't always gold. In ancient Rome, iron was the first choice. When grasses lost favor in Egypt, wedding rings incorporated other materials such as ivory and leather and, more recently, fine metals inlaid with jewels. In both cultures, brides wore the ring on their left ring finger, over the vena amoris (Latin for "the vein of love"), believed to go straight to the heart. In the modern, era gold and platinum became favored over everything else since WWII.
Plain or Fancy, Tt's a Matter of Style.
Wedding rings often had a wheat motif during the Renaissance.
The significance of the circlet of gold, pure as possible, is ancient. The circle has always signified eternity, and the pure metal the purity of love. Despite the contractual nature of marriage, the symbolism of the ring endured. During the Renaissance, rings were engraved with significant objects, such as wheat for fertility, or roses for love. This style returned in the early part of the 20th century, and many rings were engraved on the inside too. Until recently, grooms tended to favor plain gold bands, but today many wedding rings are quite ornate. Vintage, or reproduction rings are also returning to favor.
The Modern Style
Coordinating diamond wedding rings have become a trend.
In the 21st century, the choices for wedding ring styles are virtually endless. Couples can choose from plain yellow gold, white gold, or platinum or even copper. The rings can be plain or fancy, carved or circles of diamonds; Celtic rings are also in favor. Many couples choose three ring sets -- matching his and hers wedding bands with a coordinating engagement ring. Far from a choice made by the groom alone, the choice -- like many in the modern era -- has become one made jointly by the couple. Many even design their own.
Choose a Style
The couple should discuss their preferences before making such an expensive purchase. Look at lots of styles, and try them on; the feel of the ring is as important as the look. If you decide on a paired set, the style of the rings will be almost identical. The bride's ring is wider and slightly more ornate than the groom's. Remember that you hope to wear these rings for the rest of your life; voice your opinion and reach a compromise. It will be the first of many.
